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What do you do about Christmas gift giving when child hasn't deserved it..Posted on: 09 Dec 2017
So my 13 yr old son has been failing school the past 2 quarters, he has been very disrespectful to me and his father... We have decided that he may open his gifts but will not physically get them til we say otherwise.. what is your opinion on that, is that too rough or ?? I should have mentioned he is ADHD /ODD w/ Anxiety.. thank you all
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I don't think you should let him open them and then take them away. What if you keep them all wrapped and make him earn them back one by one. Set up some sort of goal or sticker chart, even if he is thirteen. Once he reaches a goal he can pick one present to open.
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I think that’s actually a good idea! Maybe it will motivate him to act better
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