Y is it when my mother in law keeps my daughter for a night ...

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Y is it when my mother in law keeps my daughter for a night she never listens to me
Posted on: 14 Jan 2018

 So for the past five days I've been putting my daughter to bed in her undies n she hasn't had any accidents. Well my mom in law picks her up yesterday to stay the night n wants her in a pull up at night cause she dnt want her to wet the bed. Witch I normally tell her to go potty right before bed time n she does n doesn't have an accident the whole night. What would u guys do. Cause thay stuff pisses me off 
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					Need to let her know that routine that YOU have. Kids need to have a consultant routine. If she can’t understand that explain that your daughter is gong backwards from going all night not having accidents to then peeing in her sleep because of the pull ups					
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					Tell her the nightly routine that you have! Consistency is key for small children with their routines! Hope that helps!					
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					Tell her your nightly routine with your daughter amd that if she can't follow how you do it then she won't be watching her again. Say your sorry to be harsh but you don't want your routine to be ruined because she can't have her potty before bed and trust that she won't have a accident that night.					
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					I went thru the same thing with my mother in law. Finally I had to put my foot way down bc every time she put my daughter in pull ups it set her back in her potty routine.
The best thing u can do is be upfront and tell her that she needs to follow ur guide lines bc it is confusing ur daughter, hopefully she can understand where u r coming from and help instead of hinder. 
Best of luck					
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					It’s hard for a child to adjust when they are going from one home to another because ur mother in law prob spoils her and doesn’t enforce any rules so she comes home and thinks she doesn’t have to listen to u .. I would tell ur mother in law she has to do. What u do at home or your daughter can’t spend the night because it’s causing u problems					
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					Just tell her what u want done n that it's or she can't come over,ur daughter may be regressing now cus she put her in pullups n she's like I just go in this ,my 7 yr old is autistic n is potty trained,but just at night she wets so I put a goodnites pullups on her ,in morning I change her to undies,if I left a pull-up on her she would just go in her pullups gl 😊 I know how frustrating it is					
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